Once again I got that look! That look of “WOW” is not she kinda young to be a mother, and is probably something that I will deal with for the rest of my life. But i also feel that people are wrong, rude, and should not judge before even getting to know someone first hand!!! Despite that I know to just shrug it of now, and due to that I encourage all adolescents to take the time to become parents. More so because raising a child is pricey and emotionally draining it is like never having a day off; ripping you of your youth. Many adolescents do not see all this they feel like it is a piece of cake something anyone can do, and yet again I disagree because I have learned first hand that no it takes hard work and discipline to raise a child. Especially me being a full time student I find less and less time to study because my son is now on his feet and is even more of a handle fool to take care of, regardless of how amazing I find my son I still would not want any adolescent to experience that just yet. I also feel that I am helping adolescents to see the truth of being a parent not just the beauty, and by doing so I know some will take all this into consideration and save a child from growing up in a house of struggle. What I mean by that is it has been shown that many adolescents who become teen parents dropout of high school in order to support their child, when in result do not understand that losing a high school diploma only leads to a lifetime of low income jobs. Therefore adolescents should not be blinded by love and sex and focus their energy on their future where later on after achieving a high school diploma, college degree, and even more then they will truly be ready to engage in a serious relationship and produce a child.